Executive Functioning Masterpice
Last week was my off week from coaching, usually a week to dig in at the computer and do some of the running my business stuff I need to do. This month, however, I took the week off from “work” to get the house squared away for our second child, who is due in early April. I was building a nursery, reorganizing our oldest’s play area, moving rooms around, buying stuff at Ikea, putting that Ikea stuff together, getting some local kids to move furniture for (with) me, coordinating my mom to come in and paint, etc. etc. etc… All while not killing anyone, or throwing any power tools out the window. I didn’t think much of this process in terms of my ADHD until I was discussing it with one of my clients yesterday. Turns out it was an executive function masterpiece! I point this out not to “pump my own tires” but to illustrate that it is possible for any of us with ADHD to learn the EF skills to make a huge project like this manageable. It was not easy or fun, but more or less went according to plan. I guess the key point here is that THERE WAS A PLAN for it to go according to. Any minute I spent planning, either by myself or with my wife was saved three fold in the doing of all this. Here are a few highlights that can be good templates for all of us. In no particular order… I know that transitioning my attention to write stuff down when I’m doing really intensive planning is hard for me. So, during the planning process I walked around the rooms in our house with a tape measure and my wife had a pen and paper. Also, at Ikea, I did the…